Yes, it is
my life and I have the freedom of choice to decide the course of my life but
how often do I choose that option and become a programmer myself? Being human,
I have the intellect and the resources to write my own program, but seldom do
we choose that path thus are either conditioned by others or just blind follow
them and or never explore the ability and resources within ourselves.
Generally,
it is the fear of failure or lack of confidence in our self and or the
conditioning of the mind since childhood, which inhibits us from taking control
of our own life. Time to initiate the process and get going positively. It is very
much possible not tough, all in the mind, thus take the first step to become
your own programmer, do no leave it midway as it needs patience and self-belief.
Let us take
an example, we are all human beings and hopefully all of us want to be “GOOD
human beings” thus let us write that program. The universally accepted way forward is to Write
a mission statement, ask plenty of questions, set up a process, set measurement
of success yardstick ,use your resources, take action, learn, keep improving and
evolve positively towards achieving the set goal.
What you
want to do: To be a
“GOOD Human being”.
When to
do: Right now,
during this life, earlier the better
.
Why to do: Self-improvement to feel good, enjoy
the happiness and share the goodness.
Where to
do: Inside myself-from
within
How to do: Simple four steps after understanding
clearly the above 4W’s, just focus on 4S’s as follows
Self-Respect: You are good thus have confidence
in your ability and values, take pride in yourself and behave in a dignified
manner. Inculcate this approach till it becomes a habit.
Self-awareness: Understand yourself, explore and
notice consciously the immense potential within you. Do a swot analysis of your
body, mental strength, emotional quotient, habits and behavior.
Selflessness: Love is unconditional, and it is
more of a give rather than take, this selfless approach brings out the care and
compassion with in you and refines it to make you tolerant and forgiving thus
enables you to embrace all without any
expectations.
Spiral
growth: It is a
beginning of a new journey with above steps in harmony with you, your
surroundings, the growth will be spiral and not linear. Focus on these three
factors with full commitment and demonstrate, the resultant actions shall reflect
the goodness positively not only within but around you, too. This path of your growth
then moves spirally first touching your inner circle of influence expanding towards
Godly virtues and the cosmic energy.
Now that I know what to do, when to do, where
to do, why to do and most important how to do? I can write my daily routine
based on my own swot analysis to focus on the three S’s above, put into
practice, introspect daily thus making it a continuous process in my life. Keep
evolving based on feedback and failures as It is all about enjoying every moment
of my own growth and happiness.
The measurement
yardstick of this program has around 5 levels of expectations viz- Basic,
Expected, Desirable, Surprising and unbelievable. My consistent good behavior
and actions in the society will decide the level of attainment. The more I
share my goodness, the more I grow and expand my circle of influence. Nothing
is impossible, I can aim for basics and then keep evolving spirally.
Satish Shitut
Jaihind
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